In my efforts, and desires to grow, I have tried several means of implementing new ways of growth in my prayer life, reading, witnessing, meditating, etc. Most if these things I have tried and have not been very successful in have come from what I have gleaned from others (read or listened to). I will tell you this… Those things (abilities) are for those people, and have not typically worked for me very long, if at all. Ask God what will work for YOU And YOUR growth! He alone KNOWS what is beneficial for YOU to grow and mature. Don’t forget, He is Sovereign over your life. Ask Him. Stop imitating (or coveting) what OTHERS have and are doing. That is for them. Be your own servant for God. Your personal time with God, and your personal growth will come from time with Him alone. This IS NOT THE SAME thing as man-to-man fellowship. Fellowshipping with man is a REQUIREMENT of Hashem (God, the Creator). Taking from another man something that is his, and not from God is dangerous, because it won’t fit; and WILL NOT fit. God’s Spiritual outfit and goodness will and has always been tailored just for you, and me. Let us stop imitating other men, and be a man that follows God’s plan and leadership. He will teach us how to speak, and act as we should. His Holy Spirit will lead us and teach us in the Way we should go. Once more, This IS NOT THE SAME thing as man-to-man fellowship. God uses, and we need that time to encourage us to grow and for support and oneness. Yeshua (Jesus) sent them out in 2’s and it is plain in Eccl 4 the importance of 2’s. Oh yeah, marriage is also a number equated with 2’s. Use that other person(s) for their intended purposes, but bond with God, for His specific plan.